This blog post will not be about how to make money or saving tips and tricks. It’s going to be more about the mistake that I have done and getting over it.
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Wondrous life
In the past year, when everyone else was busy being dreadful about the change, I was busy finding my purpose and how I could earn more money. Why? Simple, I have a family to feed. And I had dreams of staying home and yet still earning as much as I am earning in a full-time job.
It is still my dream today. I never truly let that go. The thought of me being available for my children 24/7 while I earn a 4-figure income with the bills paid on time, and me making a difference in other people’s lives while I have the abundance of time and money.
I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one who desires this lifestyle. Maybe some people already have.
So I reached out to someone I met many years ago. She was broke and broken then. But now, as she portrays in her social media, she had become a millionaire.
But things went downhill quite quickly and yet I was blinded. Blinded by hope and wishful thinking.
I kept on paying for her advise (mostly criticism) for a good 8 months
And it wasn’t cheap
By far, this has been my most expensive mistake and I am just grateful it’s not more than what it already is
I found out that many others have fallen prey into her trap of chasing after dreams that she is not sure of how to help us get them!
It’s just words and words and theories of who knows if it’s true!!!!
As much as she denied that she is a scammer who overcharged her services, I needed so much time to finally realised it!
Mentor
What does that even mean?
From my understanding, it is someone who helps an individual get to their goal in the best way possible.
A mentor is an experienced and trusted advisor.
However, up till today, I do not see where I am heading. It’s either I have more money to invest, then I’ll get more money. Or, I have to rewire my mentality and keep reaffirming things to come to me as soon as possible.
Okay, imagine this, I need to make a bill payment within the next 24 hours, and all that this “Mentor” told me was, affirm that within the next 24 hours you’ll receive money! Do this, do that! As when I did, but nothing happened, I’m left to be responsible to find means and ways to pay that bill anyway.
So now what?
At the end of the day, I still have to find my solution?
What is she here for anyway? To tell me how useless and helpless I am?
To criticize my lack and tell me my logical brain is useless and not helping me to achieve success?
Come on! Be real! Robert Kiyosaki didn’t get rich by reaffirming the whole day! They learned practical things and applied that knowledge into the real world!
Al this while, she have been telling me to block out and say fake news to all the unwanted things that’s happening in my life. And her example was, Donald Trump.
What happened to America when he said Fake News to Corona Virus?
I’m sorry but this Mentor told me this. Say Fake News to unwanted reality. And what did I get myself into? More debts than I ever had before I met her. Just like how “Fake News” had America having the highest number of death from tragical disease. It’s sad. Truly sad. I feel for them because I too had been told to believe that what’s happening in the real world now is just fake news and it’s not my desired reality.
It made me feel like I’m a lunatic and I’m making illusions about what is only good for me but ignore the reality that I don’t get to contribute food for my children. How more sad can that be?
Lesson learned so let’s move on
Now that I’ve learnt the truth, I want to move on with my life and be back on the ground. My heart is more at peace now. Knowing that I can control and I am in control. No more manipulative words from an uncertified Mentor. A fake millionaire.
I’m just going to live and be me. Faithful. Mom. Teacher. Wife. Admin to my husband’s business and a loving daughter to my parents.
I’ve learnt that I don’t need to be rich to give the best life for my loved ones. I just need to know my priorities and settle down on what I already have. Being grateful is the best thing ever.
And I thank God for sending me my heart signals and emotions. Telling me to let go of what I know I can let go but was afraid to.
Now, I’m coming out stronger.
Quinn of Fortune 